Humans Are Not Perfect

Everyone has his share of "not good". It’s impossible that a physical being should be void of faults. The point is not to flee or hide from them. Nor is it to resign yourself to it all. It is to face up to the fact that they are there, and to systematically chase them away.

Recognizing who you are and gradually cleaning up your act -- it may look ugly, but it is a divine path.

-A Daily Dose of Wisdom from the Lubavitcher Rebbe -words and condensation by Tzvi Freeman - From Chabad.org

Sounds to me like Steps 4 to 10...
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